Mateo Silva
A little about me…
When I'm working as a personal chef — which is nearly every day — I start my mornings with a strong espresso, a good workout, and a cold shower. If not, I like to ease into the day — maybe with some reading or a good stretch, maybe letting my creativity take over for a bit. I enjoy the rhythm I live by: full of intention, a little indulgent, and always present. I grew up in a big Latin American city and moved to Toronto as a teenager. Life gave me two great gifts early on — culture and curiosity — and both still shape how I live and how I connect.
I’m 5’11”, with dark brown hair, brown eyes, a soft, full beard and a strong build. I’ve played sports my whole life and still stay active with boxing, weight training, yoga, and the occasional swim in the ocean when I get the chance. I’ve been told I’m very handsome — and while I appreciate that, I’ve always placed much more importance on my character, presence, and values. I take care of myself, and while I do love classic men’s fashion — it’s not out of vanity, but because I like showing up as someone I can feel proud of, someone you can feel excited to be close to.
When I’m not in the kitchen or at the gym, I’ll be exploring new restaurants for inspiration, learning about wine, philosophy, or the inner workings of the human mind. I’ve spent years studying psychology — what drives us, what connects us, what makes us feel truly alive. And yes, I’ve got a weakness for good espresso, warm cookies, and the occasional burger. But what I crave most is connection — intellectual, emotional, or physical… ideally all of the above. When it's time to unwind, I often relax with a nice glass of red, maybe thinking about our upcoming date and looking forward to having you back in my arms.
I love what I do, and while connection is a welcome escape from a very demanding life, I find real joy in making you feel seen, desired, and deeply cared for. If we spend time together, I want you to walk away feeling more in love with yourself, more alive, and as free as you’ve ever felt.
Our date together...
A date with me is a space where you can be fully yourself — seen, heard, touched, and deeply appreciated. That’s what I offer. And I offer it well.
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I’m the kind of man who finds joy in making you feel like the most beautiful person in the room — not just with words, but with the way I listen, the way I touch, the way I care. I’m a personal chef by trade, and nurturing those I love is at the core of who I am.
Whether I’m preparing your favorite meal, running my hands across your tired shoulders, or whispering something that makes you melt — your comfort, your pleasure, and your joy are what fulfill me most.
My energy is warm, grounded, and effortlessly engaging. I’m the type of man who makes you feel at home right away, even if you’ve never experienced anything like me before. People say I’m direct, authentic, and incredibly attentive. You’ll feel it in the way I look at you, the way I listen, and the way I take care of you.
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Whether we’re sitting across from each other at a candlelit table or stretched out on the couch with a bottle of wine, my attention is on you. I’ll listen with my whole body when you talk. And when the world feels too heavy, I’ll be the calm that brings you back to yourself.
You’ll feel it in the way I hold you — strong frame, steady hands, soft lips brushing your neck. I’m here to make you feel desired, yes. But also safe, relaxed, and completely seen. That’s what I love most — giving you the space to let go, to be taken care of, to feel beautiful in every sense of the word.
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Let’s spend the afternoon strolling through a gallery, shopping for something indulgent, or sipping wine while we let anticipation build before dinner. Whatever we do, the focus is on being present, feeling connected, and exploring your desires… together.
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I’ll cook for you, give you a slow massage, and love you exactly how you like to be loved. Tenderly. Passionately. Playfully. Assertively. Whatever your heart — or your body — needs most.
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Our time together feels like the kind of memory you return to when you need to smile — the kind that lingers, long after I’ve kissed you goodnight.